What should I do about the church?
April 2, 2011 by refl
Filed under Church stained
My guys family has went to the same church for a while…they give ALOT of money to the church but its just not built for a wedding.
There is no entry way with steps….its not the traditional church look.
It doesn’t have a steeple or stained glass, plus its HUGE and our wedding is going to be rather small.
I have always loved a different church and always wanted to get married there.
It is the picture perfect church.
Its kind of small..has steps and coloums in the front of it, and a beautiful stained glass window behind the alter.
I really want to get married here and I dont mind paying the extra because it is one of the cheapest churches around to get married in.
It is the same faith as his parents church so I dont see a problem there.
My question is am I wrong for wanting this?
He doesn’t even go to his parents church anymore, and asked me if I would want to join the one I love.
I feel like his parents are going to be kinda mad about it.
See if the preacher from your guy’s family’s church can perform the wedding at the church you love.
It’s not different than anyone else who picks a church based on how it looks.
It is both of your days, and if you two agree and love it then do it, you can invite their minister to partake of the wedding of your faith too you know. The Lord says, “Ask and ye shall receive.’
Good luck
I’m sure that your fiance and his family will understand that their beloved church, while a very ncie church, is just not aesthetically pleasing. As long as it’s in the same faith as his family, I don’t see why they should give you a hard time about it. Besides, it sounds like your fiance is fine with the church you love, so that’s really all that matters. It’s about the two of you first- anyone else’s opinion doesn’t matter as much as your opinions do.
Sweetie, Get married in the church of your choice…not his parents choice. Don’t worried about them being mad, they will get over it. Best Wishes!
The way you have to look at it is that this is the beginning of YOUR new life. You have to stop worrying so much about what your parents or his are going to think. This is especially so when it comes to Religion and church affiliation. Sure, you are always going to care what your parents thing–that is natural for a child to want to please his/her parents. However, you need to make your own decisions regardless of who is going to be annoyed because it is not their “vision” of what the see for you. Do what’s right…they will come around. This stuff happens when you’re planning a wedding.
If it’s the same faith I dont see nothing wrong with it! Plus if the church is too big… why would you want to have a small wedding at a big church, the people will look lost in the congragation!
~yoyo